Missing a mother who has passed on

Lianne lost her mother five years ago and she still feels her very close.  She had a dream that she was driving with her mother and wonders if this was a message.

Her mother is helping her, guiding her, directing her.  The dream was the creation of Lianne’s need.  The bond with the mother shall always be.  It does not diminish even when the transformation has taken place.  The energy is even stronger.  I know Lianne misses the wonderful communion that they had, the talking.  Mother does put a message forward that she needs to have more friends, to find companionship, in part with other women.  Their humour, their love, their light is... and still is.

Blessed child, you are not alone.  Pay attention to your dreams for they tell you that you miss her. They tell you that she’s still with you, but in the spiritual car.

Guides and harsh voices

This question is from Pam.  She had a disagreement with her partner and she said something hurtful. Then two days later Pam heard a voice screaming in her head admonishing her never to use her words to hurt.  She says she wonders if it could have been the voice of a spirit guide even though she believes they are  benign and caring. She says, “Perhaps the bad parts of me have guides that punish to help me grow.” Can you comment?

It always has been something I’ve never understood, how in the physical world they seem to think that punishment creates growth.  It is always the opposite—it creates a state of no growth.  Violence, punishment—it stops everything.

No my dearest one you did not hear a guide; you heard your own self—talking to yourself.  You have an inner voice that is so harsh and angry with yourself.  Your guides love your dearly and they are speaking to you that you are totally frustrated and feel absolutely helpless.  And always when your words are so angry it is because you are feeling unloved.  You need to turn it around inside out and practice loving yourself.  It is almost like needing to erase those old words that you heard when you were growing up.  Know that they are not part of you now but that they do come back whenever you are unsure.  It’s like thinking, “ Well that’s the old and familiar; I must fall to that. That will make me feel secure and strong.”

But it doesn’t anymore.  You are a new being—a brand new, more evolved being.  Now it is needed for you to stand in the light of love and to not fill it with anger, but with love.

You do love your partner.  You love many people.  But you do not love yourself.  Oh, I know the word love is bandied about every which way in your world.  But in truth love is a vibration, a wonderful vibration, of God, of mother, of life, of giving, of growth, of forward movement.  And it feels good in the body, because it can only feel good in the body.  And when you saturate your body  with love it feels very joyful, but when you’ve left spaces open and filled with a negative thought, it can create a bigger and bigger sore until it must be dealt with. 

And so my dear, I know you don’t want to look backwards, but sometimes you need to just look at who you are and where that voice would come from.  You don’t have to go back and do that or be that again.  But understand that it’s a part of you, a part that needs healed. 

Healing isn’t erasing; it’s embracing.  It’s surrendering and saying, “I am ok even though I have that part of me.  I am love even though I had hate in me.”  Bless you my child. You are doing very well.  You see how much better you feel already. 

Thank you. Those are wonderful words.

Experiences with two birds

KF asks about her experiences with two birds.  She says, "Hello, can you please tell me what the significance of my experiences with the "two birds" is. It has been happening for months now and I am wondering if there is anything I should be doing that I am not or  - what it is they symbolize? I'm also wondering about the many single hawks that I have seen and Ravens that have been in my presence. Thank you and much love."

This is a very wise being.  Evolved beings often communicate with all manner of the physical world.  The birds communicate with her and she with them.  These creatures are lights themselves.  They feel her pain; they want to communicate she is alright.  That she will have the love she wants and her time will be filled with happiness again, with a strong partner.

Thank you.

A difficult relationship with the family

Jennifer asks about the difficult relationship she has with her family.  She says, “We are no longer speaking.  I feel really lonely but they hurt me deeply and I don’t know what to do.  I feel like I’m getting validation from the other side in the form of hearts and feathers.  Is that true?

Dearest Jennifer, most definitely the beings of light that surround you are there.  They are with you, they support you. Often in the times of greatest growth you might feel somewhat alone, but know that you are not.

When people around you are toxic,  their energy can overwhelm, so you are wise to know what you need to do for your own growth, for your being.  Seek happiness.

When you think of your family, surround them in light.  Send the love from your heart that is so true and worry not of the response.  But know that this is an action of pure love, that this might help them in time, to heal them.

Healing yourself is your utmost importance at this time.  You are loved my child.

Talking about it is good, and healthy.  But remember it is your own choices that are most important.  See them for your own growth now. In time there will be an opportunity and you will have a choice to speak to them again.  But do not think of that now.  Think of healing the wound.   Remember your truth and you will do well, my child.

Thank you.  I’ll pass these words on to Jennifer.

Worry about a mother who committed suicide

This question is from Nastassja.  She says her mother committed suicide in 2006 and she is worried that her mother may be trapped in a personal hell.   Even her dreams of her mom seem eerie and sad. She is so worried and just wants her mother to be ok.

Dearest Nastassja, your mother is in a time of great learning.  It is a time of calm and quiet, understanding every action that took place, her choices and her growth.  It is true that when she left she felt  great sadness at what she had done to her daughter.  But know that it is not a pain like what is felt in the physical world.  It is a higher pain but it is one that she can heal and grow through.  She has not communicated with her daughter for she feels she has harmed her. 

In time, Nastassja, as you heal you will have communication and it will help both of you to grow and move forward.  In your dreams, dear child, it is your sadness you experience—for you are the creator of your dream.  You put the people in the positions to create the image of who they be, as an element of growth for you to pay attention to.  And you are in deep sadness, and you feel lost. 

Know that your mother is not gone from you, know that the bond is still there.  But you even had confusion about this bond when your mother was in the physical life with you.  The one who leads you to the light has left, has taken an action that confused you.  Part of you wonders if that is what is for you.  No my child.  You must forage your own path.  You were often a mother to your mother—wiser than your years.  Take time to heal yourself my dearest.  Anoint your body with love that the universe has for you.

Beautiful words. Thank you.

Trust issues and inner work

Mary’s granddaughter asks about trust.  She says, “I have been trying to do a lot of inner work lately but still have a block regarding trust issues which I am concerned may damage some of my relationships.  Can you advise on how to deal with this block or tips on how to be clear on who to trust?”

This one desires very much to learn, to grow, to see, to evolve … to heighten her vibration.  Dear one, you say inner work, and I assume from this that you are looking to yourself. But I feel you are judging yourself my dear.  I want you to have the compassion of the universe for your own self.  Look upon your being with love, tenderness; this is the most precious gift. And know that you have difficulties, that sometimes you have said things and wished you hadn’t.

Stop hiding my child.  You have a wonderful path ahead of you.  You have come teach so many something very valuable.  Not yet time to know of it; in time you will.  Inner work: seek your truth.  Seek what you consider you.  When you make a choice, ask yourself how does it make your body feel? In your decisions, do they lift you?  Or do they make you feel heavy? Listen.  Watch. See who you truly are.  I see an amazing being.  You will too.

Thank you.

Lost passports and chaos in life

Emma in Texas asked about where her lost passports might be.

Emma needs to take her life seriously.  Her physical health is not well and she is chasing about being very busy, creating chaos.  Emma dear, you need to be still.  Perhaps if you can do this you will hear what is needed to be heard.

Wanting clarification on a father's will.

Lyn asks about her husband and his siblings who are having difficulties arising from the wording in their father’s will.  They also ask if there is any message from their mother who died in a car accident 40 years ago.

They all know that she would be too mild and gentle to say what she really should say to all of them. And as to the issues over the father, well, each of them knew this being in a different way.  I’m not surprised they are fighting.  Each wanted attention in a different way and didn’t get it.  I am not surprised at all.   You need to sit down, put away these words on paper, and talk about the father.  Share amongst yourselves who this being was to you.  And each must listen to the other instead of interrupting.  No one is right; no one is wrong. Put your views all together.  Hear each other, and I believe you will hear what is needed to be heard.

Thank you

Wondering if you're ready for a new love

Cathy says she’s been without a partner for quite a long time. She wonders if she’s destined to be alone or whether she should be more active in searching out another partner, or if it will just naturally happen.

Dear one, a being to create a partnership must have an opening in one’s energy, an attraction to that being to come to be filled.  Yours is still filled with one of the loves you had on your path; one that you measure all others by.  You have some unfinished, what you might call an unhealed state of being with that being.  Take time to examine this and understand what holds you back.  There are others to be with you--but perhaps you do not feel that one is complete yet.

Beings make choices in the physical world to complete promises.  Some of these promises are to bring in children; some of these promises are to complete a balance with one another.  But usually when the promise is between two people it can hold a great effect on the whole.  This is still with you my dearest.  It does not mean you cannot love again.  It means you must open yourself to attract another into your life.  

Be not afraid. Trust.  This is not going backwards.  It is understanding that which is still with you.  Be in peace my dear.  May I add to this one—my child, need to celebrate being.   You are a strong, brilliant entity.  There is much yet to do.


Thank you.  I'll pass these words on to Cathy.

Change and growth in a relationship

Tboy34 asks how to deal with  the relationship with Scott.  He is not sure if they are going to continue their relationship and move out west.  He says, “I love this man deeply and don’t want to lose him.  How can our almost four-year relationship last?”

Dearest, you are a very controlled, determined being.  You are afraid.  You are afraid to let go of that which is, for fear of never having it again.  Change is the most common of things in the physical world.  It creates growth.  It gives opportunities for growth.  It forces growth.  Often, while dwelling in the physical world, beings can get very fearful of moving forward.   They often will lie in a place that is quite comfortable and will not even look at change.  And yet as you see the most comfortable of things.

My bright light, trust that you can step forward and be.  Trust that if you nourish with movement and flexibility this relationship will grow.  Do not fight my child, love with the sheer joy of life, do not hold back.  You could do some very deep breathing exercises dearest one.  It will help you. Be in peace.

Dreams and what they can teach us

Kirk asks about a complicated dream in which he felt a strong connection with a dark haired man who called himself Tod.  He would like some insight into the dream as it seemed very important. Can you comment? 

Blessed one, your dream is a manifestation of your creation.  Every being in it is a fracture of you.  You desire to love, to be whole and complete.  Your complicated life shows up in this dream. You manifest many things.  You fear being judged--but then most beings in the physical world have this concern.  I do not know why, but it is a reality of your world.  It is needed to release this, to embrace your path.  See your dreams in the morning as a wonderful display of how you are feeling at this time.

Yes, this dream does teach you something.  It teaches that you want to be accepted, that you want to be loved; it teaches that you have a somewhat chaotic state in your life right now.  And you fear knowing who you really are.  Blessed one, I know who you are.  You are a wise and gentle being with such an ability to touch the hearts of others.  You often hold back instead of letting them see who you are. Trust in yourself my dearest one.  Trust that you are on the right path.  That you will find that partner or union in your path, that you will find peace.  It is good that you look at your dreams.  Do not stay within them, take them along with you on your path.  There is something from your being, talking to you.   You are the only one who can truly hear what they say.  If you are still, you will be able to hear.  You have much chaos in your life my dearest, practice being still.  The practice of dreaming is good, do it in the waking state, for it will give you a source of peace. 

Empathy, compassion and new ways of seeing life

RGP asks about people who seem to have no empathy for others.  She says, "I have always thought of them as uncaring, while now I am wondering if they are simply more "advanced" spiritually. That seems to contradict what you would think spirituality to be, but, maybe they see the bigger picture--that death is simply a transition? That misfortunes are simply opportunities? I, being an empath have started to view things so differently, I am able to feel somewhat less attached to others fears and emotions  than I once was, I seem to perceive more of the spiritual side as opposed to the human side  now. Could you give me some insight into these new views or questions that I have?  Thanks!

Blessed one, there are no separate sides, there is only one.  What you are understanding now is that you have taken a great step: maturation of the soul, evolution of the being.  Your energy, your spirit, your soul has shifted to a vibrational state in which there is more clarity.  In which the understanding that there be a reason, a purpose, an opportunity for growth.  It does not mean that you do not have compassion. It is not an excuse to not care.  But your love in the greatest sense is that all beings must do that they have come to do.  That you are responsible for your actions and they must be for theirs to the highest of your vibrational state.  It is not that some care less and some care more.  It is that they   be where they be in their evolution.

Do not judge them, greater or lesser. Let them be. Let the air be around them to breathe and support their paths, as you in yours.   You cannot take steps backward.  You must be and feel and see your world as it is for you.  That is what knowing your truth is my child.  Judge not yourself by anyone else’s  standard but by your own.  For you know within what is right for you.  Sometimes you judge others too harshly.  But even at this state you are moving forward--and beautifully.  I have great love for you my child.

Communicating with spirit guides

Jeninacide has a question about communicating with her spirit guides. She says, “Sometimes I feel like they are right there waiting to answer but I can't quite communicate with them yet.  Are they really there?  Do I need to listen more?  Do I need to listen better?  I feel like I am almost there--but not quite."

The fact that you feel them there is your truth my dear.  They are there.  And the listening isn’t something you need to try harder; you need to try less.  Give them an unconscious task: ask them for a sign.  This is something every guide is thrilled to do, to create a path of conversation between the two.  It helps their job a great deal and helps yours as well.  Do not be afraid of this.  They are not there to watch you.  It’s about nothing except your spiritual growth.

Ask them to present something.  It doesn’t really matter what it is.  Why, the little one I speak to when she was very young asked for the sign of a butterfly.   Let a butterfly come or some thing that has meaning only to you.  And you set this task for them that they let you know they be there—then just sit back and wait.  It’s not a lot of work.  To hear them in time is just to simply relax and trust and welcome the warmth of their being.  You’re feeling it already my dear one.

Oh there are some that will work out channeling; there are some that will evolve to writing the question and receiving the answer.  There are some that will go into a place of books and a book will be present and they will open it to the words   they need to receive.

You will seek out your way of communication my dear and it will be yours and yours alone.  As unique as you are, so will be your way of communicating with them.

Sometimes we’re actually waiting to hear words.

And some people do, but usually it’s only under great frustration on the part of the entity trying to communicate.  And if you do hear a word very loudly, I would say: listen.

And what about dreams?

Dreams are most often playing out of many things that perhaps are bothering the conscious mind and it filters through to the subconscious area of the brain.   .  They are ways of playing over and trying to decide what is right or choices that need to be made, or how you would react in certain instances.  Remember in a dream each being is the creation of the dreamer.

There is a time though, before dreams—just before sleep and just before waking,  before you go into the deep wavelengths where the healing happens in the brain and the healing thoughts are there.  This is a receptive time, sometimes called a twilight time.  This is often a time when you can receive information.  And if you choose to and make it clear that you want to remember this, you can often get up and write it down.  Or write a question as you go of to sleep and then remember the answer.  Most times you don’t remember these communications but you’ll have a knowing about it.

Yes I’ve experienced that.  Sometimes I just get a glimpse of something and then it’s gone before I can put word to it. 

But you have absorbed it.  It isn’t meant for your conscious mind; it is meant for your spirit.

Thank you so much.  

A question about a horse

Cathy asks about her horse.  She says they have brought home a new horse, named Seirian and he  just turned 8 yrs old in early June. They noticed he was "stiff" in his hind leg and that he carries his tail to the side. She says, “I am concerned that we may be putting him to task when we shouldn’t.
Is there anything we can do to help recognize something that Seirian needs identified as a problem for him?”

This beautiful horse loves to work, loves to feel good about himself.  He is a beast of wonder and strength.  Do not be afraid to have him exercise and jump and trot and do all the things that make him feel good.  There is most definitely a charley horse, a constriction of nerve and muscle in this leg.  Massage and pressure points, acupressure, will really help this lovely beast.  And your gentle talking and smooth gentle rubbing of the muscles will help.  And make sure this beautiful being gets enough magnesium.  Magnesium is important for the strength of muscles in this horse.

Thank you.  I’m sure Cathy will be very happy to get this information.  It’s so wonderful to be able to get some information about the animals in our lives.

They are wonderful--each with their own processes.  each just as amazing as…well all the animals in the physical world.

Stepping away from one whose behaviour is abusive

KCKKM says she desperately needs advice about a person in her life whose behavior is incredibly abusive. She says, “Unfortunately this person will be a part of my life for a very long time. Can you please give me some advice on how to protect myself from him emotionally, perhaps how to keep him from getting to me. Why is he so mean? why does my presence make him angry? Why does he not want me to succeed? Is there anything concrete to his threatening behavior or is it all just a cry for attention and what can I do to improve this situation?”

Dear one, you’ve answered your own question.  It is all a cry for attention.  He is very fearful that you are moving on in light and happiness and achieving things, and soon will be on a completely different path from him.  He finds this very threatening and wants you very much to be under his control as you were in the past. 

He is not a bad person.  He is just actually making a lot of noise and really doesn’t have the power to affect you at all, other than if you accept what he says.  Your attachment with him is really limited. It is much more the others in his life that have more of an attachment than you.  You need to embrace the fact of your strength and your growth.  You have done amazingly in the last little while--even the fact that you see this and understand it.  The fact that this one still bothers you and can bother you it is your choice.  You do not need to let this happen.

Oh I know this seems complicated in your life.  It isn’t my dear.  Step outside of it and look at it.  Give the advice to yourself that you have given many others.  You are a very wise person. You do know what you need to do.

She says that this person will be part of her life for a very long time.

Mnnn. 

But she is able to step forward and away from that?

Yes.  Her understanding of “a long time” isn’t  quite the truth.  But I understand what it is she is saying.

Any final words for this person?

You are a most beautiful being and you are doing very well.

Promises with another person and moving on

FS asks for guidance about swinging from feeling very strong to wanting to hide. She asks, "Am I creating any roadblocks in my career or personal romantic relationships or am I flowing along? If I am blocking can you please tell me how to release myself. Also my friend B.N. do we have a greater promise that is to be fulfilled (I had felt we had a big promise) or are we finished? I get overcome with tears whenever we part or when I look at a photo of my friend and I am not sure why as nothing really terrible has happened between us.

Oh dearest one, you are doing just fine. You are an evolved being. You are very often confused about this physical world and its conditions of acceptance and society’s needs, but in following your own truth you are very good. Be not afraid of it though. There is a little bit of fear within you that you need to dissolve away.

What you had with your dear friend—it still exists. It was never more than that. He did have a promise but it was not a deep, long lasting, or evolved. You’re overwhelmed with emotion because you are such a tender soul—and need very much to reconnect with a being that you have known in many lifetimes. As to whether this is going to happen or not, it is taking some time. And your frustration is noted.

There is a being that you are going to meet that you are going to be very happy with. Trust in this my child. Trust in all your steps. You are doing very well.

Thank you, I’ll pass this on.

When a promise is complete with a person, you have the choice of moving forward or staying with them. That one needs to move forward. Know this.

The one who asked the question?

Yes.

Thank you.

Opportunity for a home based business

Karen asks about an opportunity she has with the potential to make much better money doing a new home based business. She says, "I have started it part time and would like to do it full time. Is it a good idea and will I be successful at it?"

 

You are an amazing being that can walk in the shoes of many.  You have always known this about yourself.  Whatever you choose with the passion and love in your being, shall be successful.  Do not fear asking for your own being.  Ask with the full-hearted love that you have for all; ask for yourself, and it shall be my child.   Remember to put you on that list, at the top of it.