Doing something with one's abilities

rgp asks why they are being shown so many amazing miracles and visions and whether they are supposed to be doing something with these abilities?

Blessed one—you are. You are seeing them. You are hearing them. You are open and willing. This is the first state of great growth. In time, when you feel more comfortable with these things, you will begin to speak of them. It’s what you already know. You’ve had a sense and you tell people often afterwards, but you are somewhat hesitant to speak before hand. In time, blessed one. Do not overwhelm yourself with expectations or judgment that do not belong. Being, willing this is a perfect place to be--open, loving, as you are.

Thank you.

Leaving a draining relationship for her own survival

I have a comment hear from a woman named Wendy. She says the messages on our blog have been very helpful to her. She asks if she should leave her boyfriend who has drug problems. She says she feels drained by his life. She doesn’t know if she’s here to learn through this. She wants to know if we’re all here to suffer, to absorb a lesson, or can we choose to enjoy being physical and being happy. She wants to know if she will ever be happy.

Blessed one, know that your thoughts of leaving is the element of free will, of choice within you. Survival. Know that you are now feeling a need to remove your being, to protect it, for you are being overwhelmed by the situation. And you see in it a state of “no growth.” But he continues to stay in place and not move forward. Not only is it the abuse of his being, but his lack of clarity and choices and forward movement that concerns you.

You feel as if you are standing with your feet in cement, when your heart is yearning to be amongst the stars. Blessed one, pain is part of the physical world. It is important to feel it, yes. It is important to understand and listen to what it is speaking to you? Yes. You must do what the voice from within speaks to you. You are trying to deny it for you want very much the stability of a relationship and the warm companionship that it provides. Trust, my dearest one that you need to make choices for you. Then perhaps he will make choices for himself that will make the two of you grow. But it is most important at this time to concentrate on your own growth, for you are in a state that is very unhealthy for you. You know this. You are concerned about it.

You are a wise being. Life’s passages are not about suffering; they are about growing. In there of course there must be some pain, but there can be the great joys, highs and lows, swings of good and bad—and both are good. If you understand this about growth you will see it not as a long path of suffering but as many opportunities to grow. And blessedly you shall do a lot of it.

Thank you.

Guidance for "being that that you are"

Your answers are very beautiful, and very helpful. The spirit guides so often speak advice to "be that that you are." Do you have any guidance on how we can go about making that happen?

Understand that the being that you are is greater than the body that you created to present you. Understand that as soon as you decide who you are, you are not that being any longer. That you are constant change, that you are…well, a miracle.

Be the miracle that you are. Be the limitlessness. Be unlimited. Be ever-changing, ever-embracing radiance. Be the highest that you can be--that is being. When you go to make a choice ask “What does the body tell me?” And if the heart races with excitement, or if it feels heavy and sick with anxiety, then you know that your choice should be for the highest. When you go to do any action, be sure that the action is the greatest that you can do.

Be not negative in your choices—but understand that negative often creates growth. And if a negative thought comes through, do not be angry with it. But ask yourself: Why? What is the underlying growth that I need to see here? Why has this great emotion come forward (through the use of this physical body in this physical domain) to teach me? What do I bring this to my awareness for? See that being as the great teacher within you. Call it God, call it higher self—it is you. You are an amazing, brilliant fracture of energy. That knowledge, a wealth of information, that is being that that you are.

You spoke about sometimes we have a feeling of anxiety or dread about something. And there are times when we have to go through that to do, I think, something that would be for our growth.

Yes.

How can we tell when….?

Then ask the body why this is created. Do not be afraid of emotions for they are great tools to learn. In your physical world they have been given a personae. But you have manifested every one of them. Not you, in particular, my dear.

Yes, I understand.

But they have purpose. When they are overwhelming then there is a great need to stop all and seek an understanding. Your world offers many ways and forms, many truths. Seek yours. Seek that that is right. Does it mean that there should not be pain? No. There will always be pain in the physical world. It is a great tool to learn through. There is a confusion in your understanding of pain. But often it comes from the state of evolution of the being. So judge not—and be. Be.

Thank you. I will try to do this.

Confused by rejection from a man she loves

This question is from Barbara. She says she fell in love at first sight with a man she met six years ago and she believes he felt the same. Since then they have become very close, but he has been diagnosed with health issues that he will have to battle the rest of his life. She doesn’t see these health problems as a barrier to their relationship but he does. He has withdrawn from her and won’t respond to her emails. She is heartbroken and confused by this rejection. She wants to know if she’s made another bad choice. And she is afraid of trusting. She still has a great deal of love for this man.

This young woman is very confused. She wants very much to help, to heal, to support, to love. The man wants not to burden, or to ask so much. To stay in this relationship would be overwhelming for him. He is in a state of what in your physical world is called depression, feeling there isn’t a great deal of hope. She wants to give hope, wants to be close. This is a very difficult situation in which she must stay true to her understanding.

She speaks that she has made bad choices--speak this not child, for there is no such thing.
There are choices that create growth in many different directions. And growth, as you know, is always good. She has grown. She understands herself more than ever. She doesn’t conform to the rules and regulations of expectations in your physical world. In many ways she is dancing in two worlds. In her heart she is a free spirit with free choices but to the world she follows what is expected. So part of her says, “Yes I will accept that you will not see me.” But part of her says, “No I will never accept. What we have is separate from this world and very beautiful.” In lies this, her choice but it has been taken from her by his choice.

She must extend to him that he needs to find help for his being. The communication might feel that it is not going through. If she would say that you must find help for your being, to help you, to lift you, to see that that you are. Nothing is hopeless. All things have light and love in them.

Tell her at this time to make choices of great good for her own being. She tries so hard to fit into the understanding and acceptance of others. And now this great dilemma is very confusing for her. There are times when she feels she is caught in a cage and needs to be set free. And yet the cage is familiar and comfortable and is an accepted form in which the physical world has seen her.

Ancient one, do not worry of what the world sees of you. Be the light and love that you are….

Thank you very much.

I hope I helped in some way.

Words of support for someone who is opening to channel

Some time ago a woman named JanJan posted after reading about Jane’s opening and development to channeling. She talked about fear holding her back and about finding some help in the words written on the website. She didn’t really ask a question, but I wondered if you had any comments for her.

This blessed being knows that she has been many times in this state of the physical world—has evolved to a very high rate of vibration. And in such passion and joy sees the design of a world that she dearly loves. It is because of this great love, not only for her own growth, but for the growth of the many that she has chosen to be here. Thank her for her strength, for her wisdom, her amazing light touch, pure love. And may I say that sending “light touch”—it is a vibrational state that she has opened to. There is nothing she need fear. Be that that she is—and all is as it should be.

Thank you.

Should she wait for a married man or walk away?

I have a question here from Kimmie and she has a relationship with a man whom she has been involved with for about two and a half years. He is married but they feel a strong connection and they love each other and feel they are meant to be together. But he is staying with his wife for his child. Her question is why do they keep coming back to each other. He says that they will be together one day but she doesn’t know whether she should wait for him or walk away.
She does know. She has a very sad heart, this being. She wants very much the love that she needs. Her heart and her mind are in constant fighting at this time. She is probably feeling very exhausted, highs and lows.

Blessed being, he is choosing to stay for his child, he says. But what you are hearing is that he is choosing them over you. It is important that you understand your choice. He is choosing for him, and you must choose for you. Love is an amazing energy. The attraction between the two of you is ancient; many lifetimes have been shared together. And many times it has not been as whole and complete as you have needed it to be. So part of you does know that you must choose to move forward now.

Why is it that in the physical world that one must stop loving in order to be that that they need to be? This is not a truth. You are a loving, amazing creature, one that is filled with compassion and love for many beings. Be clear with your knowledge of what you must do for your growth. Stop fighting your heart. Be that that you need to be for your being, for your choice. Understand that love only moves forward. Growth—it doesn’t stop. Surround the being with love, ensuring that he will choose and move, as he needs to do so. And surround yourself with love, so that you must do what you need to do in this path. Should the time come when you choose to be close, do so. But for now you need to have a separation of paths so that you might think clearly on what you need to do.

Many times in your life you have made choices not to grow for other beings, allowing the their growth to be more important than yours. Choose now for you, my blessed one. Choose for your growth. Oh my beautiful being, allow the light that you are to radiate. Hold not back your love. Move forward in choices, in growth, for your own being.

I feel very sad when I hear you talk about her because she so obviously wants someone to love her, to be with her.
Yes.

It’s hard to be alone.

She is choosing to be alone. She need not be. There are many. There truly is another being that is in her path, that she has not yet met, that will give her great enjoyment and happiness. That that she fears is that that she has created. Tell her to love herself.

I will, and thank you.

People in a woman's life criticize her way of communicating

Doris says she sees herself as a clear and forthright communicator but she feels that people in her life, including her son and daughter, criticize her way of communicating and are asking her to be different than she feels she is. She says she’s worked 20 years to feel she is ok the way she is and she refuses to give up her self. She wants to know what is happening there.

Yes, she is a beautiful being. Tell this blessed one she is good; she is a bright light. What her children and others are asking of her is that she be loving and gentle, that she give to them what they need. And that is her compassion, her love. She cannot do their growth for them but to hear them and support them. They fear that she has changed, that she has moved forward into a domain that is not part of their existence. All beings fear change. It is true when she feels greater than all, she is. And if she wishes to communicate to all then she must channel the energy into an appropriate form for them, that they will hear it and not be afraid of it. To adapt one’s being is not to change one’s being. You would not feed an infant the same food you would feed an adult. Allow them to be fed the nourishment from her, in gentle love. Do not judge them but love them, hear them, understand where they be. Give them room for their choice, for their growth. She knows all of this; this is not new to her. She thought in her way she was doing so. Tell her she is love, to not be afraid to show it, to be gentle. She’s had to fight for a long time; it is not fighting she needs to do now, but being.

I will tell her that. She also asks where she can find a new home that will suit her. She asks “where are her people.”

Her people are very close to her. They are fearful at this time, for they want to support her but do not know how. Allow things to be. Beautiful one put down the armor that you have needed to bring you to here, that you no longer need. Put down the guard that has been wonderful and protecting of you, a great source of your strength. You no longer need it. It is heavy on you. See with eyes of clarity and love. Choose where you want to be encircled by great love that you have already very close to you. Be not afraid. Allow them in. They will not hurt you. They want to love you.

Any information about a home?

If she takes this time to truly hear, to see, to be touched, to not be fighting against the current, she will find the home that she truly desires. She is too busy putting up a shield that took time. I know it had a purpose, it was wondrous, and it helped you to be, to understand who you are—an amazing being. But now it keeps your from that world.
I know. This is a difficult task. We teach you to be strong, to be one with yourself, radiant. And in doing so, often you need to build a wall of protection. But now, to be whole, you need to release that wall. You need to be strong enough to be. You are a blessed being. Be that that you are.

Thank you.

Helping people to find their own truth

I have a questions from Kristine that relates to a discussion we had about what has been going on in the world, in the USA and the economic and political system and the answer indicated that it was time for the ancient ones to step forward. Kristine asked how we can gather or motivate old souls to step forward.

Well there is such sensitivity present in your physical world right now. Be careful not to cause beings to feel “less than” or “greater than.” Do not label one being greater than another. But all beings…. Well, judge not where they be, but that all must now state their truth. But there does come a time when it is important to hear, to put to words. For often in that process one truly begins to understand what one truly feels, the state of one’s true growth. Often beings are walking about with a truth that fit them a long time ago, but no longer does. If they put words to it they will hear themselves (hopefully). They will hear their words and realize they no longer believe this; that they have moved and changed. For growth is constant. And the growth in your physical world is quite amazing at this time. Judge not in one belief over another—only that it is time for the truth. Be prepared to hear all. Many times you judge that you only wish to hear that that is your truth. When in fact you must accept that that is truth for others. For they be where they need to be for their growth. It is true that many can grow in body in a lifetime. That is what has occurred. That is why at present in your world there are a great number of very evolved beings and a great number of very young. But they are not less or greater than. They be. They are growing, being. The ancient ones want to know how to bring their message forward. They are.

Individually.

Yes. Think not that they will all be in ancient bodies—they are all range of ages. Many are what you might consider an older state of evolution physically to match the spiritual growth, but some are in very young bodies. So listen to all. Listen. Perhaps this is the greatest thing to tell all people in your world at this time—to hear, to listen without judgment. But listen with an open heart and in the light and understanding of love. And hear the truth. Find and seek your truth. Each individual must do this. No one being can do it for all. They can help, show the way, open the door. But it is the choice of each being to step through that door, to pick up that that they must do, to seek their truth, to live it, to be it.

Take not of the responsibility of causing growth for all beings—for you can only cause it for yourself. If your promises in growth involve the helping and teaching of others, then it shall be. And you shall find yourself time and time again in the position of speaking to many. But speak with love. Encircle each word with the vibration of love and caring and trust. This is how it shall be heard and seized, and it shall heal and cause growth for others. Be not words of fear, be not words of judgment—love.

Thank you.