Pets that come to teach us love

Andrea from Italy asks about her puppy LadyBird who was poisoned. She had a strong bond with her and feels that this one is coming back to be with her again. She wonders if it is possible that the puppy that she is thinking of getting is her LadyBird coming back to her.

Blessed one, yes, it is very possible but it will be at the time that is needed for that being. They like all beings have their evolution. And they have, as you have, promises and growth to attend to. You have a loving heart, dear one. There are many that need to come to be with you. Think more of what you can do for them, than of what they can do for you. The bond you had with that being (LadyBird) was very good and very healing. I know you are very sad. But this was not the negative that you might think it is. That being is helping you in other ways now. Open your heart to many. For, in time, you will have more than just one. You are truly a nurturer of the universe. Allow them to come to you my dear. Be not afraid. Do not withhold. Your love is too great. And trust that that being is close.

She may have already got this new puppy. So, it is probably not the same one then?

No, but there will be more.

And how is it that our pets can help us when they are no longer in body?

Oh my dear, you do understand that the bond doesn’t end just because the cells have transformed from the solid to the fluid. These ones are often very much still close, soothing you, helping you to stay open. They do this so that the love they have taught you will continue. And as it continues it grows. And so they stay very close for a time, until they need to move forward for their own growth—as do beings of all forms.

And they are on their own path and cycle?

Yes.

It’s amazing.

The communion of soul to soul is amazing.

Concern about a loved one's drinking

Cheryl asks about a loved one’s drinking. She says he doesn’t become abusive but he is in his own little stupor. She knows that his behaviour is not life enhancing and she worries about his health, his spirit and the cost of his habit. She misses the vibrant person he is when he’s not drinking. She knows she cannot heal him as he must make his own choice, but she wants to know if there is something she can do to help.

It is an amazing thing, love in the physical form. The great compassion she has, in fact has helped him to stay in this state. Tell her to speak purely from her heart that she loves this one but no longer can accept the choices he makes for himself. That she must take action to choose for her own being. And this is to not allow the continuance of her relationship with this one. For truly, although she is afraid to say it, this is destroying her being. For as he takes the poison, it is she who is poisoned. As she watches his destruction, it is she who is being destroyed. Tell this blessed being to drink deep the love for herself, to choose now for her own growth. And if it means what seems quite drastic, to release herself, she must. She knows this in the depths of her being, but she does not want it. She wants him to see the love she has, and her need, but he cannot. Nor will he, if she accepts what he is doing.

Blessed one, call on love for yourself. Be that that you are. And love yourself. Again, this does not mean you cannot love the being. In fact you will love him more by loving yourself.

Thank you.

A young woman alone with her baby needs help

Katherine has asked about her situation. She has a new baby and her boyfriend has not taken any responsibility even though he said he wanted to be involved. She is sad and lonely and feels unable to move forward. She is concerned about how to be a good mother and is waiting for her boyfriend to participate but he does not seem interested. She is confused and depressed and fearful of being alone. What can she do to move forward.

She is a blessed being, a beautiful being, filled with love, and does feel very alone right now. Firstly, little one, let me tell you there is not a single mother that does not feel alone. Each mother for the first time holding her child will feel as if there is no one there to help, to give her the perfect answers for all things. But with stillness, and great love…in other words, dear, don't’ hurry past what you need to do for yourself and your child. Be singular in your thoughts of this now. I know the complexities of the life in which you walk are vast at this time, but do not take on the whole world. Take on the moment. As if to say to you, take small steps, or baby steps. This is very important, to not overwhelm yourself with the whole of the situation.
Be who you are. A beautiful being, filled with love, wanting only to help yourself and this child to move forward.

Take deep breaths. Be in the moment. Hear yourself and your thoughts. Make sure your thoughts are nurturing and healing for yourself and your child. If they are not--if you are feeling negative or destructive--then you must choose help for yourself. And there are beings that will gladly help you, my dear. You need to put a voice to these thoughts. No one is going to take your child away from you. They want to help you, and it can be. You’ll find yourself I a situation where many seem as if they are not willing to help you. Dearest one, in truth you’re fearful of helping yourself; you’re fearful of loss, fearful of losing.

In many ways you might think that this is what has brought you to this place, but do not put yourself in a state of blame right now. Put yourself in a state of empowerment. You know what is right for yourself and your child. And you will make choices clearly each moment as they arise. You do not need to take on the world.

As for the father, he must make his choice. He truly doesn’t understand who he is or where he is at this time. I know there are responsibilities that he must stand up to, and hopefully will in time. But there are also ways in which others can help him to do this. Seek help for yourself, for your child, and for him.

As to your situation at home, this too can be helped. There are wonderful beings that will help you but you must find strength in your voice to speak out and ask. Dearest one, have you never heard of “what you ask you shall be given?” For this is truth. If you love your being enough to ask for help, not only from the physical world, but also from spirit, it shall be there for you. I know your reaching out in this question is such a way. It is there for your dearest. There are many who want to help you. You are surrounded with great light and great love. You’re a very intuitive being, and often times you hear other people’s needs. Try to concentrate on your own right now, and your child’s.

Thank you.

Tell her that she is loved and she is not alone.

I will do that. The help that you are talking about, would this be from friends and family, or would this be from some social services organization?

She must begin by talking of her need to all. And they will help her find the steps to be taken. It is very important to use the tools of being human in a physical lifetime—a voice, a heart, a need. These are tools with which you learn in your physical lifetime. It doesn't help to keep it all hidden, and this child so close to her heart that she becomes so overwhelmed that she becomes destructive to her own being and to her child. She does not want this. Tell her to be not afraid to speak. And it shall come to her.

I know that the young woman wants this man to simply come back and take care of her. But that is not her promise.

She asks what happened, why he is not interested when he seemed to want to be involved?

In truth he does want to be involved but he is as overwhelmed as she is, and he does not understand what he does at this time. He understands very well what it is like to not feel loved, but he is afraid to feel it. She must take care of her own being at this time. She might love him from a distance if she chooses but it is important for her to take care of her own being. It would be ridiculous for me to say to her “stop loving.” That is not possible, but understand that the more you give the more you receive. Tell her to direct her love at herself right now.

Thank you, that’s very clear and helpful I think.

Concern about a son with bowel issues

Kristine asks about her son who has some bowel issues, which seem to be fairly new. She would like to know if he has food sensitivities or if there is something else going on? How can I help him?

Dear, blessed one. Your beautiful child is anxious and fearful right now. Try not to make a big deal about this. Be calm and relaxed and help the child by being not stressed, by eating vegetables and fruit. He's very much like you in many ways dearest. You too have had these difficulties in your path. Try not to hurry this child. Allow this one time. This one very much is attached to you, and needs some private time with you. Needs to be quiet--well, dearest mother, you know exactly how to be with this one, for it is of your heart that is the same. This is why when this your blessed child arrived, you knew that you knew each other. Worry not, be patient, there is nothing wrong. He is just a very sensitive being, and it is hard to be in a body sometimes. Be patient, and love him.

Crystals and pendulums

Cheryl asked about crystals. She says she is drawn to certain crystals crystals (Lemurian Seed crystals, amethyst, rose quartz and labradourite) and finds they make her feel very peaceful. She uses one of her Lemurian crystals as a pendulum and would like to know if this is a good way to communicate with the guides. She wonders if the answers accurate or whether the motion of the pendulum influenced by her thoughts.

This dear one is drawn to the purity and simplicity of the crystals. For they be pure and reflect only that that is surrounding them, and it is her pure light they reflect back to her, making her feel very at peace. She has experienced lifetimes where these very pendulums and crystals played very much a part of her path. They give her a feeling of security. I am not surprised by this. She might bring them close to her whenever she feels the need, but truly it is her own beautiful energy they reflect. She must know that she has suffered a great deal to be so light, and her vibration moves at a rate very similar to many crystals, and so they do feel good on her body.

She will know that that is right for her, a very romantic, emotional being. As to the pendulum, it is her energy that makes it move. Her energy is reflected, and so it will speak truth to her.