Kristine feels her husband does not want to grow and so she has chosen to step in and fill the gap. Now her health is in question and she’s asking for his help financially and he seems unwilling. She says, “I feel he wants me to do it and I’m frustrated. I must be well for my children. What can I do?”
All beings want to grow…but sometimes they become afraid. And they stay in one place—almost as if frozen—out of fear. But do not doubt this being wants to grow. You my dear Kristine, have such capacity to love; you have no fear of any movement forward. You jump willingly, knowing there is a great love to hold you. So be that love that you are. Be that love for him, for your children. Do not do his work for him. Do not assume he can or cannot do it. Love him. Surround him with that energy that you are—so purely. I know—you have great desire for all beings. Centre that love within it. Let the desire be for the growth and the love, for your children. Heal your being to your own ability, and choose what is right for you. I know you feel that you have one hurdle after another; that there is always something in front of the great ability for happiness. But you have been feeling as if you are pulling them all; that you are at the head, dragging this great weight. You are not. You are just trying to do everyone else’s work for them. And that is an impossible task. So pull back my dearest one. Be in the love and the light that you are. Extend it purely from your very chest. Radiate it. Use not words, but the vibration of love. Let it pour through your heart, through your eyes. Don’t worry that you have to use the words to support, to motivate, to move. Be it. Your children know of this. Sit with them and just be.
She also wants to know how to wean her daughter from the breast.
It is already done. There needs to be just nurturing. You need to teach this little one how to be strong. You know how to be strong. She is truly mirroring a fear that she has. It is fine.
Monday, June 30, 2008
Soul evolution and joy in living
Cheryl asked if we come to this life as new souls and continue to return until we become mature souls. She wonders if we can come in a different order or skip ahead, or go to another plane for an experience.
The evolution of your vibrational being is constant. It doesn’t matter if you want to call it new or old. It heightens with every learning experience. There is no written law on how it must be. Truly yes, you can move to other dimensions if you wish to, but you cannot go from a new soul to what you would call an ancient soul in one lifetime. The evolution is your own process. And very often the most ancient feel the opposite. For they feel that all is wise and wonderful. And the truly evolved being has evolved to the state of great vibrational height. They understand the truth of all that is new and wonderful. It is often the very new soul that is oblivious to all of this. It might seem upside down or inside out. The evolution of your vibrational soul, your spirit, is truly your own. You choose, but the heightening of it is through growth. To each dimension you choose. Truly to cause the least chaos in your vibrational state it is best to stay with one dimension at a time. Some beings choose to stay within the dimension even when it is time to leave. They love it so dearly, or perhaps are so attached to some part of it. Fear not. The clarity—you will know when you are in between which dimension you wish to come to.
She also asks if we are intended to live joyful lives while learning (with the understanding that there is joy in every experience if we just look for it).
Yes. Joy in the wonderment of learning, is truth. But there must be pain as well, for it creates the greatest growth. And there is truly joy in the opportunity of growth. Your spirit understands this, and as you evolve it is more conscious of it. Very new souls may feel that they have not the ability to find joy in pain…but it is there.
I guess if we had lives of just complete bliss there would probably be no opportunities for learning.
You can have a life of complete bliss and have great sadness within it. Is it a choice or is it a vibrational state? This is huge, you understand. Bliss is a vibrational state—of knowing that even at the most wretched moment you are one with all that can be. Are one with the pain and one with the joy; one with the growth that never stops. What might seem to be the end of something is truly the pearl. When you understand about the continuum you will understand your whole process, your path.
Thank you
The evolution of your vibrational being is constant. It doesn’t matter if you want to call it new or old. It heightens with every learning experience. There is no written law on how it must be. Truly yes, you can move to other dimensions if you wish to, but you cannot go from a new soul to what you would call an ancient soul in one lifetime. The evolution is your own process. And very often the most ancient feel the opposite. For they feel that all is wise and wonderful. And the truly evolved being has evolved to the state of great vibrational height. They understand the truth of all that is new and wonderful. It is often the very new soul that is oblivious to all of this. It might seem upside down or inside out. The evolution of your vibrational soul, your spirit, is truly your own. You choose, but the heightening of it is through growth. To each dimension you choose. Truly to cause the least chaos in your vibrational state it is best to stay with one dimension at a time. Some beings choose to stay within the dimension even when it is time to leave. They love it so dearly, or perhaps are so attached to some part of it. Fear not. The clarity—you will know when you are in between which dimension you wish to come to.
She also asks if we are intended to live joyful lives while learning (with the understanding that there is joy in every experience if we just look for it).
Yes. Joy in the wonderment of learning, is truth. But there must be pain as well, for it creates the greatest growth. And there is truly joy in the opportunity of growth. Your spirit understands this, and as you evolve it is more conscious of it. Very new souls may feel that they have not the ability to find joy in pain…but it is there.
I guess if we had lives of just complete bliss there would probably be no opportunities for learning.
You can have a life of complete bliss and have great sadness within it. Is it a choice or is it a vibrational state? This is huge, you understand. Bliss is a vibrational state—of knowing that even at the most wretched moment you are one with all that can be. Are one with the pain and one with the joy; one with the growth that never stops. What might seem to be the end of something is truly the pearl. When you understand about the continuum you will understand your whole process, your path.
Thank you
Sunday, June 15, 2008
A mother wanting her son to find his way in the world
I have a question from Jennifer about her son who is in his mid-twenties and still feels loss and sadness as the result of the divorce between his parents about ten years ago. He is having difficulty finding his work in the world and financial independence. She says, "I hold my son tenderly in my heart and sometimes I worry that he may be stuck. Is there anything more I can do to support him in finding his path? He is a brilliant light."
Dearest one, it is not your son that is stuck but you. You hold guilt in your heart for an action you took for survival of your being. It is true there are parts of your young son that feels he has missed, but in truth he is a strong, radiant being. And you need to trust in him. With all the love that you have for him he has grown beautifully. Speak to him that he is a wise, evolved being, that he will find what he needs to do in his time. There is no rush. And in truth he is already thinking clearly what he needs to do. For yourself, dear Jennifer, love your being. You are also a very strong, beautiful being. Hold yourself not in that that was, but in that that is. You have clarity now. It is in the “now” moment that you heal that that was, for yourself— not just your son.
You are not responsible for your son’s life and path and growth. Yes, for a certain time as the caretaker, so that the body be nourished and loved. And as they grow and step to the edge of the nest and spread their wings, to trust that the wind will hold them. And it will. Be strong my beautiful mother. You have done well by this beautiful being.
Thank you.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Words for people who feel alone
Could you talk a bit to people who feel very alone in this world
Do you understand that you are not alone? Do you understand that to listen is not a weaker state, but a stronger, more secure place to be? That when you stand alone you have clarity, to look outside of your being, to see other faces, to be with other beings should you choose it. You’re not meant to be separated and totally alone from other beings, but if you have set around yourself a vibrational state, which removes you from others, you need only put your hand out to them. Not only to those spirits that surround you, but to other beings in physical form. They will be there if you only ask. Loneliness is a state of growth; it must be felt. But like all states of growth it has a beginning and a conclusion. It does not stay forever. It is your choice.
Do you understand that you are not alone? Do you understand that to listen is not a weaker state, but a stronger, more secure place to be? That when you stand alone you have clarity, to look outside of your being, to see other faces, to be with other beings should you choose it. You’re not meant to be separated and totally alone from other beings, but if you have set around yourself a vibrational state, which removes you from others, you need only put your hand out to them. Not only to those spirits that surround you, but to other beings in physical form. They will be there if you only ask. Loneliness is a state of growth; it must be felt. But like all states of growth it has a beginning and a conclusion. It does not stay forever. It is your choice.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Healing from abuse
Elizabeth asks about her father. She says he suffers a great deal and she wants to know why he does not remember his abuse of her. She wonders if he has blocked it out. She doesn’t think he has but he denies it and she wonders if it’s the only way he has of coping with it.
He is truly a different being than he was when the abuse occurred. He has grown. He abhors that action and believes by his words that he can erase it. He knows he cannot. He loves the child and feels very uneasy with the knowledge that is between the two of them. Blessings be to her to find love, to find acceptance, even understanding that this one who was one way in the past is now greater. She is a great being that has grown a vast amount. It is only through her love and her vibrational ability to see beyond what occurred that has allowed him to grow. The part of her that doubts herself is tied within it still. Speak to her that it was real, that she gave a great gift of growth, that she has grown. And this is all she needs to worry about.
Many beings are often abusive through the past knowledge of how to be. When they do finally grow and move through it they find it very difficult to understand that they at one time were a certain way. Love, unconditional love, is the only thing that heals. Healing does not erase it, it simply makes if vibrationally acceptable. It is often believed that through healing all things are forgotten. It simply alters the vibrational state of that that needs to be healed, and thus makes it capable for the being to live with.
Right, so you still carry it with you but it’s in a place of peace?
Vibrationally altered, yes.
Thank you, that’s very helpful.
He is truly a different being than he was when the abuse occurred. He has grown. He abhors that action and believes by his words that he can erase it. He knows he cannot. He loves the child and feels very uneasy with the knowledge that is between the two of them. Blessings be to her to find love, to find acceptance, even understanding that this one who was one way in the past is now greater. She is a great being that has grown a vast amount. It is only through her love and her vibrational ability to see beyond what occurred that has allowed him to grow. The part of her that doubts herself is tied within it still. Speak to her that it was real, that she gave a great gift of growth, that she has grown. And this is all she needs to worry about.
Many beings are often abusive through the past knowledge of how to be. When they do finally grow and move through it they find it very difficult to understand that they at one time were a certain way. Love, unconditional love, is the only thing that heals. Healing does not erase it, it simply makes if vibrationally acceptable. It is often believed that through healing all things are forgotten. It simply alters the vibrational state of that that needs to be healed, and thus makes it capable for the being to live with.
Right, so you still carry it with you but it’s in a place of peace?
Vibrationally altered, yes.
Thank you, that’s very helpful.
Expressing your spirit's voice through art
Michael has a question about his art. He says he’s taken up jazz guitar and now wonders if he is using this as a way to avoid committing to painting. He finds them both satisfying but a lot of work. He feels it’s important to have a consistent art practice but wonders if he should be focusing only on one art practice.
This being is a healer, a helping heart; one who is there to help other beings. And finding an art form, a release for him, is very important. It is absolutely the most important thing ever. It matters not what form. It could simply be blowing bubbles, if that is what the moment led him to. He must always have one, but he should not be so confining in it or so expecting of himself. Let him just flow in joy and the wonder of his own beautiful talent. For his spirit speaks to him through his music and his art. And he loves to hear the voice of his spirit.
A very intuitive being, he knows when someone needs help. He knows in himself what he needs. He has deep ability to love, but fears burdening any other beings. But burdens himself so much with many things, wanting to do everything so right. Tell my blessed one there is no right or wrong to his creative ability, that he would never do anything wrong. Tell him to express the joy in his spirit—and the pain and the warmth and the need— is of the utmost importance. He should help his spirit find its voice through whatever means, and not be concerned over how much or how many.
OK, thank you.
Tell him to thank himself for finding it.
Our connection with spirit guides
I have a question from Cheryl in response to the answer she received to an earlier question. She said it was as though someone was reading her heart, and as she read the answer she felt new presence around her and wants to know if this is a common experience. If the spirit guides that answer our questions come around us.
Yes. She is surrounded by very wonderful beings. And very often they are the ones for other people who come to her, for she helps many people. And these beings often find a way to communicate through her to them. She truly has a great heart, to love others. Of course she would now feel the presence of those around her. They will come and go; she need only ask and they will be there for her. For she is their utmost importance.
Yes. She is surrounded by very wonderful beings. And very often they are the ones for other people who come to her, for she helps many people. And these beings often find a way to communicate through her to them. She truly has a great heart, to love others. Of course she would now feel the presence of those around her. They will come and go; she need only ask and they will be there for her. For she is their utmost importance.
Thanks for your patience
Jane and I were able to sit down yesterday and do some channeling. Again we heard from the soft feminine presence that had come through before. Stay posted for responses to questions that have been asked over the past few months. And thanks for your patience.
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