Andrea has asked a question. She says first that she is happy and grateful for her wonderful life, but she asks about her husband. He is in the process of leaving his job as he is unhappy. He is having a hard time with the fear of not having the security of a steady paycheck. Andrea would like to know what she can do to help to ease his transition. He wants so badly to follow his heart, but he is also so responsible, he feels the need to be the provider. Andrea just want him to find something that truly makes him happy, but he is not sure how to find it.
This blessed being is doing everything that she needs to do. She is giving this one great love and support, but she cannot do it for him. It is nothing about a secure paycheck that she speaks, it is about security within himself. He is often not sure about some of the choices he has made in life, and yet he has been a very successful being and he needs to know that. That he has every right to choose something that will fill him with joy and bring whatever he needs to him. It is there for him. The greatest work for him is to trust. To trust in himself, and the brilliant light that he be. My goodness, this is an enchanted being. Unfortunately he does not see how truly magnificent he is. It's helping him to achieve this. Tell her to continue with her brilliant support of this one and that he is already a great success. And that choosing happiness for him teaches the greatest thing he can ever teach his family.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Husband's friendship with another woman
Cheryl asks for insight on a situation she is facing. Her husband of 25 years developed a strong friendship with a coworker 20 years his junior. They both refer to her as wife #2. When she transferred out to another office, they began having dinner together on Saturday nights, as well as lunches and emails. This has been going on for over a year now. Although Cheryl knows this is a platonic relationship, she is having a great deal of trouble dealing with this relationship. Her husband knows that she doesn't like it, but says that relationship is important to him and that it is Cheryl's problem if I cannot accept it. She feels sad and hurt and would like some insight.
Tell her to become his problem! This dear one truly is saying these things and she is truly threatened by this situation and feels very sad that this being does not understand how hurt she is. The greatest problem is truly that she has never spoken. He doesn't know. He is not a bad being, and he seeks to have this companionship, but of course it would be much more a pleasure if the two of them could find their companionship in each other again.
Tell her that she has every right to say to him that she wants to reunite, rekindle their relationship, and feels that this is not possible while his attention and energy goes in the direction of the other being. That she is not not liking this being, and perhaps she would like to join them, and if he does not accept this in any way then truly she must try to hear what the husband is saying to her.
Oh dear, this is not an easy thing for her. She does not feel good about herself and she needs to take time first to take care of her own being. It's true. She needs to lighten her whole understanding of who she is. To put herself in the most radiant light and fill herself with love, to bathe and anoint her being with the most beautiful fragrant oil. She needs to make herself so wonderfully at peace within herself. Then, she should speak with this man. And she should choose and ask herself if she truly does want this companionship any longer. Just because you've been with someone a long time doesn't mean you have to continue. It is entirely up to her. Every second you have a choice in your physical world. I wish most of you would realize that. That it is all a manifestation of what you need, and if she is not needing what is occurring, well, she can change this.
He is not bad, and the other, what is it? Wife #2? I would never accept that phrase! She needs to say that if this is not a bad being either, then all three should be able to find peace and happiness together.
Difficult for her, I'm sure. Thank you for that.
Tell her to become his problem! This dear one truly is saying these things and she is truly threatened by this situation and feels very sad that this being does not understand how hurt she is. The greatest problem is truly that she has never spoken. He doesn't know. He is not a bad being, and he seeks to have this companionship, but of course it would be much more a pleasure if the two of them could find their companionship in each other again.
Tell her that she has every right to say to him that she wants to reunite, rekindle their relationship, and feels that this is not possible while his attention and energy goes in the direction of the other being. That she is not not liking this being, and perhaps she would like to join them, and if he does not accept this in any way then truly she must try to hear what the husband is saying to her.
Oh dear, this is not an easy thing for her. She does not feel good about herself and she needs to take time first to take care of her own being. It's true. She needs to lighten her whole understanding of who she is. To put herself in the most radiant light and fill herself with love, to bathe and anoint her being with the most beautiful fragrant oil. She needs to make herself so wonderfully at peace within herself. Then, she should speak with this man. And she should choose and ask herself if she truly does want this companionship any longer. Just because you've been with someone a long time doesn't mean you have to continue. It is entirely up to her. Every second you have a choice in your physical world. I wish most of you would realize that. That it is all a manifestation of what you need, and if she is not needing what is occurring, well, she can change this.
He is not bad, and the other, what is it? Wife #2? I would never accept that phrase! She needs to say that if this is not a bad being either, then all three should be able to find peace and happiness together.
Difficult for her, I'm sure. Thank you for that.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Finding a purpose in life
Cory lives in the woods, and she has moved to a new city with her husband, who is wonderful. But she feels stuck in her life. She says “Living in the woods was my life-long dream yet I feel alone and unliked and out of touch. I cannot find a job and I don't know what direction to go. I feel there is a higher purpose for me in this life and I have no idea what it is. I pray for guidance every day yet no answers come. I'm scared of where I am right now, can you help me?”
Oh yes. Tell the blessed one that this is not the time now to lose her momentum. She has been forward moving all along and true. It is all she desires to be where she is and it has somewhat overwhelmed her. She needs to just take the time and take deep breaths, to truly look around her, study each thing. See how nature has a time when things are to be quiet and a time when they are to take up great energy.
By the time she receives this information she going to start to understand that there is something that she needs to do. She needs to go outside amongst the people, not as one giving them information, but being encouraged by what they are doing. Tell her to speak to the people around her, to teach. See what she can do for this community, not so much what her purpose is, but how she could make each day a better place for this place for her to be.Tell her she has always wanted to be in this very place, and now is the time to just understand. It is the still before the great movement. Often time when a being is in great need of great learning, they won't hear a lot. But that is actually good.
In those moments of great learning, the voices cease for a time while you find your own way? Is that it?
It is a time to be still. She has much noise in her brain, there is no problem with that. It is the fact that she needs to see the stillness before she will truly hear with her own being on it. Right now she is too busy worrying about everything else not happening quickly, instead of just taking a deep breath and just watching it all. Tell her to be amazed, be in awe by her surroundings. Don't rush forward, it's coming dear, it's coming.
Sometimes when your dreams come true, it can be a bit of a surprise and a shock…
Yes, yes. And then one sometimes starts to think that every thought is going to happen. And that isn't the case. There is a certain amount of just nonsense that moves through the brain of a human being
There is much talk on our planet about something about the collective consciousness where thoughts visit into our heads that really aren't of our true self. Is that a fairly accurate description?
Don't you remember you conversations in the 60s? You could go on talking absolute nonsense for ages. And you knew it was just a matter of putting words together in a salad, but you thought it sounded somewhat what was expected. It has always been the way. For often one that doesn't truly know the next step to take makes a great deal of noise with words. It creates a diversion.
Yes, yes, that really clarifies it.
There is a lot of time for these things in your plane right now.
Oh yes. Tell the blessed one that this is not the time now to lose her momentum. She has been forward moving all along and true. It is all she desires to be where she is and it has somewhat overwhelmed her. She needs to just take the time and take deep breaths, to truly look around her, study each thing. See how nature has a time when things are to be quiet and a time when they are to take up great energy.
By the time she receives this information she going to start to understand that there is something that she needs to do. She needs to go outside amongst the people, not as one giving them information, but being encouraged by what they are doing. Tell her to speak to the people around her, to teach. See what she can do for this community, not so much what her purpose is, but how she could make each day a better place for this place for her to be.Tell her she has always wanted to be in this very place, and now is the time to just understand. It is the still before the great movement. Often time when a being is in great need of great learning, they won't hear a lot. But that is actually good.
In those moments of great learning, the voices cease for a time while you find your own way? Is that it?
It is a time to be still. She has much noise in her brain, there is no problem with that. It is the fact that she needs to see the stillness before she will truly hear with her own being on it. Right now she is too busy worrying about everything else not happening quickly, instead of just taking a deep breath and just watching it all. Tell her to be amazed, be in awe by her surroundings. Don't rush forward, it's coming dear, it's coming.
Sometimes when your dreams come true, it can be a bit of a surprise and a shock…
Yes, yes. And then one sometimes starts to think that every thought is going to happen. And that isn't the case. There is a certain amount of just nonsense that moves through the brain of a human being
There is much talk on our planet about something about the collective consciousness where thoughts visit into our heads that really aren't of our true self. Is that a fairly accurate description?
Don't you remember you conversations in the 60s? You could go on talking absolute nonsense for ages. And you knew it was just a matter of putting words together in a salad, but you thought it sounded somewhat what was expected. It has always been the way. For often one that doesn't truly know the next step to take makes a great deal of noise with words. It creates a diversion.
Yes, yes, that really clarifies it.
There is a lot of time for these things in your plane right now.
Monday, March 17, 2008
Transformation through Death
Would you discuss life after death as we know it.
First know that there is no death—it is transformation. Because you live in the physical world, this dimension creates perhaps an unclear understanding of the whole process. Also, for some who are working in the physical world at this time, it is important not to know the whole process
Transformation occurs when spirit leaves the physical domain, moves into the light, and there are many that embrace and call to the being. There is great celebration, rejoicing, uniting. There is also a knowing of leaving, perhaps a physical understanding of leaving those the being has loved and been with a long time. Be aware that the being is still close but not having the same communication. Sometimes this is understood as a sadness or a longing.
The purpose of this transformation is to understand the whole of one's actions and growth in the physical domain in the lifetime. To take the passage, not of time, but of growth. To see the whole of one's actions, to measure these against the vibrational state of one's being, and to accept what is yet needed to be done to heighten one's vibration.
Could you explain a bit more about this heightening of vibration?
Just as you have DNA and RNA, you have a vibrational code as well. Every act has a vibrational quota or sum total. And each act of learning multiplies in the growth and the understanding of where one is. As you move forward in your time of growth, each element of growth is offered into your spirit, into your vibrational code.
This is clear to you in the time of transformation, and you then choose what is yet to be done. It takes a while but it is not transferred in time. After this time, and when you are ready, you choose to return either to the physical life of this dimension you know and are present in, or you move to other dimensions.
Or, if you are complete in the radiance of the physical world, you may join those of us that help others. Some perhaps that you may love dearly or have made a solemn vow of vibration with that you will stay very close until they are grown.
Is that what you wanted me to speak of my child?
Yes, thank you.
Please note: This beautiful image is a painting by Cindy Christian Rogers
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Finding answers within and understanding your choices
A woman who lives in Dubai named Shemkiba Jamshiti asks a question about marrying a man she met five months ago, and he says he loves her and wants her to marry him. She says she is scared and doesn't know if he is telling the truth. "If I marry him," she asks, "will I be happy? Or shouldn't I trust him. Please help me, I don't want to make any mistakes that would make my future bad".
This blessed being is hearing her own being speak to her, and yet denies its worth. Her being speaks of fear and this is more important than whether to marry or not at this time. This one so desires to take always the right step, but doesn't understand the purpose of her being, her purpose to hear that that it speaks to her. She seeks a whole world of love ahead of her.
She fears that she is not youthful, and yet in many ways she is still very youthful. There is much time to decide this and perhaps in time, if the fear diminishes, she may see him in a different light. But first, she must address her fear; it speaks to her for a reason. Never deny that feeling that comes within your body. Listen to it. It is a tool of great learning. She needs to be calm, to be still, and to ask herself why she feels this and listen for the answer.
Tell her she has lots of time. It matters not what he needs, it matters what she desires for her path. She does not know what love is. She tries very hard to understand a new world with an old world vision. Tell her to seek her own understanding of her choices.
There is much confusion in this young one. It is not a time to make vows that would hold her for a long time. It is a time for her to grow and to be. To be radiant in the light of her own being. She wants to know if she doesn't accept this offer, that she will never be asked again. Too much seeking that which is not yet ready to be. Tell her: Be in the now, my child. Love your being, grow in its radiance.
This blessed being is hearing her own being speak to her, and yet denies its worth. Her being speaks of fear and this is more important than whether to marry or not at this time. This one so desires to take always the right step, but doesn't understand the purpose of her being, her purpose to hear that that it speaks to her. She seeks a whole world of love ahead of her.
She fears that she is not youthful, and yet in many ways she is still very youthful. There is much time to decide this and perhaps in time, if the fear diminishes, she may see him in a different light. But first, she must address her fear; it speaks to her for a reason. Never deny that feeling that comes within your body. Listen to it. It is a tool of great learning. She needs to be calm, to be still, and to ask herself why she feels this and listen for the answer.
Tell her she has lots of time. It matters not what he needs, it matters what she desires for her path. She does not know what love is. She tries very hard to understand a new world with an old world vision. Tell her to seek her own understanding of her choices.
There is much confusion in this young one. It is not a time to make vows that would hold her for a long time. It is a time for her to grow and to be. To be radiant in the light of her own being. She wants to know if she doesn't accept this offer, that she will never be asked again. Too much seeking that which is not yet ready to be. Tell her: Be in the now, my child. Love your being, grow in its radiance.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
To stay with a stressful job or to move on
Cheryl says she's finding her job increasingly stressful. There have been changes to the management, and those changes have left her feeling unsupported, and there are increased expectations of her, with new rules over which she has no control. She is wondering if she should leave the job or if the intensity of the challenge she is facing are lessons for her to learn.
A long time ago this blessed one decided she didn't want to stay there any longer. I must say she has a very strong will to make herself stay, for she has long since passed the time since she has felt she was one with everyone there. Time and time again she has seen them come and go and not be too understanding for what is needed.
Her deep passion and love for humanity has been often put on the shelf. She needs to address this now, and to follow that which she needs to do. It has had a price staying in this place. Yes there were certain comforts it afforded her, but now it is beginning to weigh heavy on her being she needs to address this because the cost has become too dear for her being.
She wonders if the agency where she works is a separate entity that has its own lessons and challenges, and if she is merely a bystander.
This can happen when a group of beings gather together, but she knows very well right now that this seems to be not happening with this that she is in. She feels helpless for a reason. It is true that beings, when they gather together with a sole purpose of one thing or another, that many things can be accomplished. The momentum that is gathered with the positive energy of all beings with the one belief, with the one desire, can move mountains. No mountains are being moved where she is now, and this makes her very sad.
I am not answering this with specifics. It is something she has already thought of. She wants to be told with clarity that the next step is a sure thing but, would she be growing if I told her exactly what she needed to do? She is a blessed being, very wise, and has outgrown this place, and she knows it very well. Tell her to trust in her wisdom and to choose to grow.
A long time ago this blessed one decided she didn't want to stay there any longer. I must say she has a very strong will to make herself stay, for she has long since passed the time since she has felt she was one with everyone there. Time and time again she has seen them come and go and not be too understanding for what is needed.
Her deep passion and love for humanity has been often put on the shelf. She needs to address this now, and to follow that which she needs to do. It has had a price staying in this place. Yes there were certain comforts it afforded her, but now it is beginning to weigh heavy on her being she needs to address this because the cost has become too dear for her being.
She wonders if the agency where she works is a separate entity that has its own lessons and challenges, and if she is merely a bystander.
This can happen when a group of beings gather together, but she knows very well right now that this seems to be not happening with this that she is in. She feels helpless for a reason. It is true that beings, when they gather together with a sole purpose of one thing or another, that many things can be accomplished. The momentum that is gathered with the positive energy of all beings with the one belief, with the one desire, can move mountains. No mountains are being moved where she is now, and this makes her very sad.
I am not answering this with specifics. It is something she has already thought of. She wants to be told with clarity that the next step is a sure thing but, would she be growing if I told her exactly what she needed to do? She is a blessed being, very wise, and has outgrown this place, and she knows it very well. Tell her to trust in her wisdom and to choose to grow.
Laws of the Universe and Doing What is Right for You
Cheryl is interested in knowing if there are universal laws.
In your dimension there are laws due to the movement of cells in gravity and physical limitations of some things. Your world is linear and thus it must follow laws as you would call them, but in spirit there are no laws, there are no rules, there is only being. I am, you are, we are one. We vibrate at a certain rate that makes us separate, but our vibrational ability is one.
Can you speak to any strategies or any efforts we can make to lift our own vibrations higher?
Every being knows where their vibration is at. Even the very new, shiny ones that are like sprites, full of energy and often causing discord in every which way they may touch. But all beings know their vibrational rate and in that, they know what is right and what is wrong for their state of vibration.
So for every opportunity of choice, with your free will and understanding, take a moment (it can only take a fraction of your physical time). Take a moment and sense what is the right choice. Whether you follow it or not is up to you, but you will know what is the highest of your ability. Do not believe those that say they do not know it--they do.
And these are tools every being has with which to grow and to learn with?
Yes, that is true. No being is void of these, even those you would think have not the capacity, they do have it.
In your dimension there are laws due to the movement of cells in gravity and physical limitations of some things. Your world is linear and thus it must follow laws as you would call them, but in spirit there are no laws, there are no rules, there is only being. I am, you are, we are one. We vibrate at a certain rate that makes us separate, but our vibrational ability is one.
Can you speak to any strategies or any efforts we can make to lift our own vibrations higher?
Every being knows where their vibration is at. Even the very new, shiny ones that are like sprites, full of energy and often causing discord in every which way they may touch. But all beings know their vibrational rate and in that, they know what is right and what is wrong for their state of vibration.
So for every opportunity of choice, with your free will and understanding, take a moment (it can only take a fraction of your physical time). Take a moment and sense what is the right choice. Whether you follow it or not is up to you, but you will know what is the highest of your ability. Do not believe those that say they do not know it--they do.
And these are tools every being has with which to grow and to learn with?
Yes, that is true. No being is void of these, even those you would think have not the capacity, they do have it.
Friday, March 7, 2008
Coping with panic attacks and fear
Dorothy asks about having panic attacks triggered by heights and driving on highways, especially at night. She wants to know how she can put an end to the feeling that she can't control her own body.
This blessed entity is having a time of remembering, remembering being out of control. It was from a previous lifetime and she has brought it forward to this time now to be healed. Tell her to see it not as fear, but as a way of bringing forward healing. Tell her to embrace it, and to love that part of her that so wants to survive, to be strong, to move forward. Assure her this is not the path in which she will leave this life she is in, but instead, it is just simply a doorway that she has passed through before and is visiting again. But this time through, remind her that she already knows the doorway, and that she's strong and can move through it. To breath deep in the assurance of the strength of her being, now stronger, more brilliant, more amazing than ever.
If she wishes, she can take herself to the time the great fear originated--but she need not if she does not desire so. The fear is already there, so address it with love, not more fear.
You live in a time where many who experience this might choose to take a chemical that would cause to dull this amazing ability of the body to speak to you. Seek not for this at this time for there is not a chemical imbalance in the body. It is just fear--a wonderful tool to learn, and to grow with.
Yes, we all try so hard to stay away from that feeling.
It is seen as a great negative in your world, and yet it is an amazing tool to learn through.
Thank you for that.
This blessed entity is having a time of remembering, remembering being out of control. It was from a previous lifetime and she has brought it forward to this time now to be healed. Tell her to see it not as fear, but as a way of bringing forward healing. Tell her to embrace it, and to love that part of her that so wants to survive, to be strong, to move forward. Assure her this is not the path in which she will leave this life she is in, but instead, it is just simply a doorway that she has passed through before and is visiting again. But this time through, remind her that she already knows the doorway, and that she's strong and can move through it. To breath deep in the assurance of the strength of her being, now stronger, more brilliant, more amazing than ever.
If she wishes, she can take herself to the time the great fear originated--but she need not if she does not desire so. The fear is already there, so address it with love, not more fear.
You live in a time where many who experience this might choose to take a chemical that would cause to dull this amazing ability of the body to speak to you. Seek not for this at this time for there is not a chemical imbalance in the body. It is just fear--a wonderful tool to learn, and to grow with.
Yes, we all try so hard to stay away from that feeling.
It is seen as a great negative in your world, and yet it is an amazing tool to learn through.
Thank you for that.
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